Frequently Asked Questions About Toddler Communication
Frequently Asked Questions About Toddler Communication
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You may want to learn more about your child's communication development if they:
Are not babbling by 6–9 months
Are not pointing by 12 months
Are not saying words by 12–18 months
Are not combining words by 24 months
Have difficulty understanding simple directions
Use fewer words than expected for their age
Are difficult for familiar adults to understand
Become frustrated when trying to communicate
You do not need to wait for someone else to be concerned before seeking answers. If your child is not meeting these milestones, has difficulty understanding language, or seems frustrated when trying to communicate, it may be helpful to seek professional guidance. The earlier concerns are addressed, the better.
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Sometimes children catch up on their own, but not always. Research shows that many communication delays do not simply disappear with time. Early support can make a meaningful difference and often helps families feel more confident about what to watch for and how to help.
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Yes. Speech sound development takes time.
As a general guideline:
By age 2, unfamiliar listeners understand about 50% of what a child says.
By age 3, unfamiliar listeners understand approximately 75% or more.
Some sounds, such as R, TH, and S, continue developing well into the preschool and early school years.
What matters most is whether your child is making progress over time and whether the speech patterns they are using are developmentally appropriate.
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No. This is one of the most common myths about language development.
Research consistently shows that learning more than one language does not cause speech or language delays. Children learning multiple languages may combine languages, borrow words, or show different skill levels across languages, which is completely normal.
If a child has a true communication disorder, it will typically be noticeable across all languages they use.
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It never hurts to seek further education or an evaluation from a licensed speech-language pathologist regarding your child’s communication concerns.
Research shows that early intervention is crucial and can lead to better long-term developmental outcomes.
See more here.
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It is possible. Hearing plays an important role in speech and language development.
If your child has a history of frequent ear infections, concerns about hearing, or delays in communication development, an audiological evaluation is often recommended to rule out hearing differences.
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Language Delay: A toddler is developing language skills in the typical order, but more slowly than expected. For example, they may say their first words, combine words, and begin using sentences later than their peers, while still showing steady progress over time.
Language Disorder: A toddler has more significant difficulty learning, understanding, and/or using language. They may struggle to learn new words, follow simple directions, combine words into phrases, or communicate their wants and needs. Their language development may not follow the typical pattern, and progress may be slower or more difficult than expected.
In the toddler years, speech-language pathologists often focus less on assigning a label and more on identifying a child's strengths, challenges, and the support they may need. Whether a child has a delay or a disorder, early support can help build communication skills and reduce frustration for both children and families.
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Parents play an incredibly important role in communication growth.
Some simple ways to help include:
Talk throughout everyday routines
Read together regularly
Follow your child's interests during play
Offer choices ("Do you want the ball or the car?")
Model language without pressuring your child to repeat
Expand what your child says
For example:
If your child says, "cookie," you might respond:
"You want a cookie."
"The cookie is yummy."
"Mommy has the cookie."
This technique, called expansion, gives children frequent exposure to slightly more advanced language while keeping communication natural and enjoyable.
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Absolutely not.
Speech and language delays are not caused by parents. Communication development is influenced by many factors, most of which are outside of a parent's control.
The most important thing is recognizing concerns and seeking support when needed.
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You can find more information on communication milestones by visiting the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association’s (ASHA) website linked here!